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A master list of dating advice.
What I've learned doing the advice column, befriending sex addicts, and falling in love a thousand times a day. This is an evolving list.
Katherine Dee
Jan 21
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The coming wave of sex negativity.
If there’s one drum I’ve been beating for a minute now, it’s that I believe the pendulum with sexuality is going to swing, big time. And serious…
Katherine Dee
Mar 15, 2021
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Suicide-by-Kiwi-Farms.
You can’t delete your past, but you can die trying.
Taylor Stuckey
Sep 4, 2022
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Rejection sensitivity.
We're facing an unprecedented amount of rejection right now.
Katherine Dee
May 30, 2021
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Everything that's freaking people out about TikTok should have already freaked them out about Tumblr.
Plus Internet historians, unboxing videos, and femcels.
Katherine Dee
Jan 24, 2022
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A brain dump about femcels and sex negativity.
thought digest, 3.09.2022
Katherine Dee
Mar 9, 2022
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I am a lolcow.
Since my piece on Kiwi Farms and Keffals was posted two days ago, most of the direct interaction I’ve received has been positive. And I’m assuming that…
Taylor Stuckey
Sep 6, 2020
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Meditations on the self-diagnosis.
thought digest, 02.05.2023
Katherine Dee
Feb 5
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Did Tumblr turn your kid trans?
This title is clickbait, I'm sorry.
Katherine Dee
Apr 22, 2022
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Did Tumblr turn your kid trans?
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The Right needs its own Taylor Lorenz.
A plea.
Katherine Dee
Apr 19, 2022
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The Right needs its own Taylor Lorenz.
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Sissy hypno, abstracting hotness from sex, and intuitive labor.
thought digest, 07.19.2022
Katherine Dee
Jul 19, 2022
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Women aren't people.
Today, DT and DF tackle when to move on.
Katherine Dee
Mar 13, 2022
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