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What I've learned doing the advice column, befriending sex addicts, and falling in love a thousand times a day. This is an evolving list.

Jan 21

The coming wave of sex negativity.If there’s one drum I’ve been beating for a minute now, it’s that I believe the pendulum with sexuality is going to swing, big time. And serious…

Mar 15, 2021

You can’t delete your past, but you can die trying.

Sep 4, 2022

We're facing an unprecedented amount of rejection right now.

May 30, 2021

Plus Internet historians, unboxing videos, and femcels.

Jan 24, 2022

thought digest, 3.09.2022

Mar 9, 2022

Since my piece on Kiwi Farms and Keffals was posted two days ago, most of the direct interaction I’ve received has been positive. And I’m assuming that…

Sep 6, 2020

thought digest, 02.05.2023

Feb 5

This title is clickbait, I'm sorry.

Apr 22, 2022

Apr 19, 2022

thought digest, 07.19.2022

Jul 19, 2022

Today, DT and DF tackle when to move on.

Mar 13, 2022

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